Well, the answer is quite clear “yes it’s true”. The violence doesn’t necessarily need to be from outsiders; rather it could come even from those who you trust, those who have always been considered to be your harbor in the time of trials and tribulations.
It’s just the way of life. If you did not get it yet then you’d better wake up and live the truth. Stop your blind trust you put it everyone..! However, this doesn’t mean that you abandon all your friends just because they were abusive at some point in the past..! If you tend to do so then get prepared to live alone the rest of your life..!
It’s not about people being harsh or abusive, as this is the nature of human beings unless they work on bettering that, it is all about how you react... Are you short-tempered? Do you get angry so fast? Do you think deeply about everything you hear?!
We should realize one essential thing about those guys who don’t monitor their mouths; you're not the only victim of their smut, it’s very likely that they put down many people on daily biases. Hence, the best tactic with such creatures is to ignore what they say. Once their words get in from one ear, immediately let them go out from the other one.
Make sure not to reconsider or rethink of what they said… don’t let their words play in you head… don’t double your agony… yes, it wasn’t your fault to hear that, but it becomes so if you give them a room in your mind.
By the way, such people are not always bad, you may find good ones but they need a sincere advice. If you think you could be of any assistance then hurry and pick them up.. and don’t forget, even at this time you may get something undesirable form them, but it doesn’t matter if you’re to get nice results… otherwise save your face..
